Greedy Wish
This wish has been granted!
My Family to be Together for The Holidays *Take 3*
I put this in needy the first try because I do need this is a big way.
I decided to try it in greedy..I guess it could be considered a little selfish to want something for myself no matter how much I need this emotionally =)
As some of you know, I have been struggling with depression and stress due to my son's illness, and up-coming bone marrow transplant. I feel alone even with a house full of kids (3 still here), and hubby. My parents live in NC and my 2 oldest sons moved to TX and MD in May, niether have the means to come home.. I have not seen my parents in over 5 yrs..and they have not seen their grandchildren. There will be no gifts this yr, (meds, doctors, and bills come first), but that is fine..Christmas isn't found under a tree..and I can think of no better gift to my sons than to have their grandparents here for the holidays. I need someone here that I know cares about me and my children. Husband is no help, he's a man, he wants to "fix" me and tell me not to cry.. I need to talk to my mom about my fears with J's transplant..and get her motherly advice, lectures and love. I desprately need the "family feeling" now, esspecially around the holidays..I have tried twice to drag out Christmas decorations..but end up sobbing and shoving them back in storage...with 4 brothers and a sister, then having 6 boys, I am use to having family around...my "nest", and my heart feels empty...and I want my son to see his grandparents, uncles and brothers before his 3 month hospital stay. I talk to my mom on the phone weekly, and usually we both end up crying..it isn't the same as giving her a hug. Thanks for reading..and won't you please drop off some stars? (more)
Comments
Get well 1
I wholeheartedly understand. I hope that you get the support that you need.
Good Luck :)
Good luck!!!!!!!!!
good luck
Good luck, Tracy, I hope this comes true for you. I can't wait to go home and see my family, hopefully soon. Hugs, Lisa
Good Luck w/ your wish
I give you a 5. I know what you mean about not being around family!! Especially our mommy's. They make everything better. Good luck!!!
5 for you BTE
Santa gives u 5
Good luck!
greedy? or needy?
how about 6 of one and half a dozen of the other.
whichever category you put it in, you have my 5!!
Edited on: Dec 14, 2008 23:36 pm
got cha with 5...love scotty
I pray your Family gets together for the Holidays...Love Lorrie
best wishes
Wish you the best!
I really hope you get to see your family. Due to circumstances I'd rather not say. I am not close to my family. I do however know the feeling of needing someone that you care so much for to share everything and the upcoming surgery with. I wish you all the luck in the world with this one.
got my vote
gotcha... :)
Here's my 5! Good luck!!
hope the family gathering comes to reality for you...nothing as important as family
I hope you get your family together for holiday. Families are so important
Good luck!!
Congratulations! You got $10 from last week!
Friends and family are the most importnat gift one can have... Wishing you the best now and always. :)
I wish you well
Here ya go :) Spunky
Stormy was here :)
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good luck