My husband and I have been trying to have another baby for 2 years, we knew it would be a hard pregnancy because my other
one came early at 28 weeks, but we never thought that I would have to bury my child. My cervix tends to weaken when I get further along but this time I was in the doctors's office by 6 weeks and doing everything they told me but it was worst. I only made it to 22 weeks one more day and they would of tried to see if steroids would of worked, even though you're not suppose to get them till 24 weeks, anyway my son Jaydin Reign came early and when they put him in my arms he was alive and I held him till he took his last breath. I never thought about getting life insurance on an unborn child I don't even know if you can, but needless to say my finances have suffered horribly, behind on house note and need to finish paying for funeral which cost 1500.00, I really don't know where else to turn the church could only donate 100.00, please help, I don't know how to get my life back on track after this and deal with all of the financial burden at the same time. I thank God for my 4 year old. I would really love to be able to put a headstone on my son's grave, no one ever thinks at 26 you'd be burying your own child well here I am and I feel in my soul I have to do the right thing, he was a part of me I felt him kick, and saw his little eyes when they put him in my arms, he was a completely formed beautiful baby boy. I really want to add his picture I just don't know if I should, he was only 1.6 pounds, please if you are looking at this remember he is a beautiful child, picture not that great, really was not thinking of taking pictures at this time, hospital took this one for me. (more) 
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OMG I am Sobbing right now for you, your family, your son, and my unborn baby
I know that everyone is saying this but...I WISH that I could do SOMETHING to make this somewhat better for you.
I know what you mean about trying everything for your baby. I am trying too.
I am almost 10 weeks and the Dr's tell me what you had to go through and do is a VERY high possibility for my miracle baby...I am holding my stomach and crying praying that I can carry my baby to term...but with all my diseases and my kidneys the dr's aren't so sure...and even if I can there is a risk for MY life before and after I give birth.
I know what you mean about the age and how young you are to bury your baby
I am 19 an dI PRAY and HOPE the Dr's are wrong! Just like they were about my being sterile.
I REALLY hope that your family does better and that...honestly...I do not know what to say...nothing will make it better and I cannot stop crying...but I need to before Robert gets home or he will be worried...he should be home in...oh god! ANY MINUTE! I gotta go...it is 4:56am and I have not yet gone to bed! I have been on here all night voting for deserving people like you.
I wish I could say more but...I don't want to get in "trouble" he only gets mad because the baby an dI need our rest so I do not get admitted to the hospital...again
I wish you the VERY best in this world and for your baby in the next.
If you EVER need to talk...I am here for you...ANYTIME...send me an e-mail WHENEVER you want...
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Much love and Caring,
Alexandra
this story breaks my heart... i wish you the VERY BEST of luck with your financial troubles... and i hope yall are able to keep pushing forward!! you are doing a great job!! hang in there!! im so glad you got to hold your son! 5 stars!!!
I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you can get back on your feet financially very soon. I'm glad you were able to hold him.
Good luck
I am truly sorry for the loss of your son Jaydin. No mother should have to bury her child. I belong to a Pregnancy and Infant loss group. Feel free to email me and I send you the link. We have many supportive mothers.
I found this info in our forum about resources and thought I would share it with you in case it might help with the funeral expenses. I know this doesn't bring your little boy back but might ease the burden for you right now.
Article Life Insurance Benefits
If your baby dies after a live birth you may be eligible for a benefit from your life insurance provider even ifyou never purchased life insurance for your baby. Eligibility requiements vary. Inquiring about a possible life insurance benefit is undoubtedly a difficult thing to do while newly bereaved, but it is important to check with your insurer as soon as you are able as there is often a time limit for applying for such benefit, life insurance can help pay for funeral and burial expenses or other unexpected expenses that may occur as a result of your baby's untimley death.
I am so sorry for your loss.
I wish you the best in this difficult time...
Best of luck to you - gave my 5!
Man.
You have my 5, my condolences, and my prayers.
my 5 stars to you! cheerios!
good luck:)
GOOD LUCK YOU NEED TO WIN
I am so very saddened by your loss. I do hope you are able to pay off the funeral expenses and have a headstone placed. I will be praying for you. Blessings (oh and 5 stars)
i AM SO SORRY FOR YOU AND YOUR PAIN. MY DAUGHTER WAS ALSO BORN EARLY BY 16 WEEKS. I LIVE EVERYDAY WITH THE FEAR THAT WE WILL HAVE TO DO THE SAME AS YOU. I HOPE YOU RECEIVE THIS WISH. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN OUR PRAYERS! 5 STARS PLUS I WILL PASS THIS ON TO MY FRIENDS.
good luck, 5 stars
Bless your heart! I am so very sorry for what you are going through and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I pray you win!
Good luck!
Best of luck to you,I hope things get better for you.
Good luck !
good luck!
Here's my 5 stars & the best of luck to you!
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Support for parents who have lost a baby.
Take care of yourself and your family, The expenses can be paid off slowly, but you all need the time to mourn and to heal now.
I am sorry for your loss. Have you thought about contacting your newspapers, holding a car wash and posting donation buckets in local businesses to help with the cost of the funeral? People are extremely generous in times of need.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. So sorry for your loss. 5 stars. Hope this helps you to win.
I am so sorry, may God bless you and your family!
Sorry for your loss, I hope my vote will help :>
I totally understand your loss, my 5 week old daughter passed away from SIDS one month ago today. I am only 25 so I know what it feels like to be that young and watch your baby be buried. I am so sorry for the loss of your son and wish your family the best. I am praying for you all!!
I am so sorry for your loss. Please be kind to yourself....
First, thanks soo much for your comments. Im glad to know that someone can really understand me. More than that though, I'm soo sorry to hear about your loss. I have tried so hard, and been through so much, just to try to be a mother. To know that you have lost something, that means sooo much (especially to me), hurts badly, i know. I cannot begin to image the pain you are going through. Keep your head up, and good luck with everything!
So sad. My thoughts are with you.
I am so sorry for the loss of your son.
I am sorry for your loss! My deepest regaurds! Hope you win! good luck on your wish! 5 stars
my sincerest regrets for your loss
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. Good luck with your wish.