I am wishing to feel my husbands arms around me again.
It has been 8 looong months that I have felt that. I have become an emotional basket case as I miss him dearly. I am not the only one suffering but our children are as well. I try not to cry in front of my children but it is hard.
To explain a little better. I married a wonderful man in 2005. I have a son whom I had in a previous relationship and my husband took him in as if he was his own. He loved him so much that when I became pregnant with our first daughter he cried and often told me that he was afraid he wouldn't love her as much as he loved my son, Griffin. Of course as soon as she was born he lost that feeling. He still considers Griffin HIS first child but does have equal love for all our children. Selena was born in September 2004 and is now 2 and 1/2. She does not understand where Daddy is. Our second daughter Hailey was born in November 2005, 6 weeks early and was in the NICU for a week after I went home. Between myself and my husband we stayed by her side the whole time. I was told after her birth I should not have any more children as the birth could prove deadly for myself or baby. When Hailey was about 3-4 months old we found out I was pregnant again. This was the most scariest thing for us. As we do not believe in abortion and as my husband was hoping to have another little boy we waited it out and I frequented doctors almost weekly along with specialists. The baby was due to be born in Dec 2006. My husband being from Ecuador and not being a citizen of the US was ordered by an immigration judge to voluntarily leave the US and return to his home country by the end of July 2006. We are working with an attorney and immigration to get him back asap. I did not think it would take so long. Getting closer to our final daughters birth he still was not here and was unable to see the birth of our daughter Alanna. She was born in Nov 6 weeks early. This was not an easy delivery and almost proved fatal to me. Baby was fine after staying in NICU for almost 2 weeks due to low birth weight, 3 days after her being home she was back in hospital, She is well now. I wish to be able to take my children to see there Daddy in Ecu. (more)
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please stay strong for your babies.
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Too sweet. Your babies need their daddy!
you have my 5*****
HOPE THIS WORKS OUT .VREY SAD A 5 AND PRAYER
good luck, 5 stars
You have my "Five"!!!!! We'll keep you all in our thoughts and prayers!!!!! God bless, and the very best of luck to your precious family!!!! I'm sure once he is back here with you - - - it will be a very very looong time before you every even 'think' of being apart again!!!! It will be soooo worth it!!! :-)
Thank you for the kind words.
good luck to all of you!
Good luck in all of this. It has to be so hard being so far apart.
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goodluck!
I didn't know they could just make someone leave. That sucks! Good luck to you!
Being apart is never easy, especially for that kind of time! So far the longest my significant other and I have been apart has been just over 4 months.
Good luck! May your wish come true!!
good luck
It is very easy for you to bring your spouse to the US provided you have a marriage certificate, and visit the USCIS website. All the forms are on there, you have to pay a fee, but unless he has a criminal record somewhere - there should be absolutely no problems in bringing him back here. It's probably way cheaper than you & kids going to Ecuador. If you're already working with an attorney as you said, then they should have told you all this and helped you fill out all the forms and send them into the USCIS center nearest to you. I've been through this procedure, although it was a fiancee visa, and my hubby is here now. It took 6 months from the day we submitted the paperwork for him to actually land here. So it's totally possible. Good luck!
Hey there!! I popped in and gave you my 5!
Good luck :)