Im cassandra Im 18 and Im getting married to a great guy named Barrett who has a heart of gold.
We are getting married July 7th 2007. I have alot of medical issues including siezures, major allergies, chronic back pain gurts and heart problems ect.
Recently on june13th I ened up in the hospital (ER) due to heart failure which lead me to be laid off from work as of the 15th of june. June 20th I was rushed to the hospital again. I had to have a small surgery. I had a very sore, large infected Abscess cause from an allergic reaction from a shot on the 13th.
I grew up in foster care and was emancepated and on my own sence 15. My "family" lives in Newyork and I dont know them all that well when I tried to get to know them noone was willing to help. Barretts parents are trying to help the best they can but his mother as well is very sick herself . Together we still dont have enough for all my medical cost, rent, and our wedding.
Barrett is trying his best to make ends meet. He works 6 days a week 10 hour days and when hes home he takes care of me.(more info on things he does in bio) Because I'm laid off it put a major dent in our poket. I lost my medical insurance we have no help paying for anything medical wise and the test thierselfs are very exspensive. From CTscans to bloodwork, ultra sounds to the E.K.G I'm scared that we cant afford to make me Better and have the wedding. Ive delt with most of my health issues my whole life, We just want to be able to get married while I can still say I do.
The last surgery made it so I cant even walk without help and im currently on bed rest . Ive beat death many times so Im trying to keep my head up high but theres so much pain and depressions not helping much. I lost weight so now my dress dont fit anymore it has to be hemmed but the cequins make it impossible. We dont have enough for our tuxes or dresses anymore, we had to down size our wedding alot, our rings are still at the store on lay-way half paid for but we cant afford to get them out. We were going to try a loan but we need not more debt.
Theres many things we need help with like due bills for electric, water,gas, car payments so we can get to the hospital and he can get to work. We need help!! (more)
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You have my 5
Good luck.
I gave you a five could you please read my wish and give me your vote.....
Good Luck to you ... God Bless
Good luck to yall, I hope everything works out!!
God bless You Both!!
Rhonda
i wish you well! my 5s to you! cheerios! Barret is a lucky guy!
God bless ya. Heres 5
Ps this wish was more then just for my wedding its also for our house hold bills medical bills (things we need to survive) and the naughty part the wedding... to clear up confusion!
WE ARE TRYING TO STILL HAVE THE WEDDING EVEN IF ITS IN A HOSPITAL, ME ON BED REST, OR IF I CAN WALK.. so please keep voting thank you so much for your support.. Barrett said he would carry me down the isle if he had to he only wishes to marry me.... were going to try our best to do all we can.. were going to try to get a small loan I lost a total of 18 pounds this past week and 1/2 so were trying to fatten me up for the dress... hopefully my health gets better and this works! please pray for us and my health.. the infection is spreding.
Edited on: Jun 23, 2007 07:11 am
wow you have been through such a lot for one so young! Sounds like you have a wonderful man in your life though. Don't give up on your dreams! Best of luck, God bless.
Good luck!!!
well irregardless u got a five
I changed my wish to naughty ...
some thought that my medical needs were not NEEDED ha
Edited on: Jun 23, 2007 07:06 am
here you go I was just looking for sorry. No problem I was new once if you need anything just message me.
Gave you my 5!! Good luck!!
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Edited on: Jun 22, 2007 18:30 pm
Here's my stars coming your way
You have my 5. May you get everything you wish for and much more. Don't give up!
And always, always SMILE ... I hope the video makes you laugh as hard as I did.
Laughter is the best medicine.
U have my 5, GOOD LUCK
Good luck here's my five!
5 stars
Thanks, and good luck!
5 Stars GOOS LUCK !!!!
it saden me to see htat some are given me low votes is there something wrong with my wish??? I noticed one guy is given alot of people ones and twos :(
im new to RHf and I was wondering I anyone had advice and im sure in need of friends thank you so much and Godbless
Wishing you the best of luck!
Heres my 5 hope it helps best of luck to you.
best wishes
hunny i will keep you in my prayers , your hubby to be is a keeper , i will pray that everything will be ok for you and you can have your wedding day , i wish you the best in the world love kelly
5 stars for the cute couple in the picture!!! You definitely sound like you have a wonderful husband to be. Wishing you all the very best!!!
here is 5 thanx for the vote and the friendship =D
Thank you so much for all who has wished for me so far it means so much.. I couldint explain everything in the space provided but my bio explains alot if anyone has the time please read becasue I got sick again and had to edit my wish Im trying hard to keep my hopes up.... I really need help anything from $1.00 would help right now
thank you so much and God bless you all
Edited on: Jun 21, 2007 21:09 pm
~~Cassandra, I am sorry to hear all you have been through. I am happy to see you have a Great man to help you as much as he does. Keep your head up!! I will keep you in my prayers..and I leave you FIVE on such a deserving wish also!~~
You got my five star vote sweetie.
Please check out my wishes.
Good Luck.
heres my 5! wow what a lucky wedding date! 7-7-07!!!!!!!hope its wonderful!!!!!!!!
Here ya go, good luck
heres 5 stars please vote on my wishes thank you
You have my five! Best of luck to you!
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good luck and best wishes to you
Here's sending 5 stars your way!!
Good luck!!!
This Wish is very important to be please read.
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Thank you so much
Sheila
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YOU have my 5 stars! Best wishes!
Please Check out my wish for my son if you have time. He had his baseball helmet stolen and also got hit in the eye from a very good hitter! He needs a booster to help keep him in the game!
Again best wishes to you and good luck!
good luck to you I hope you get everything you need. Hope my 5 stars help.
If you get a chance please check out my naughty wish to see my family. Thanks
Best of luck to you, I hope everything works out for you!
Good Luck I'll be here