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| need some down time life is crazy! |
| Member Since: | April 18, 2007 |
| Location: | M United States |
| Gender: | Female |
| Birthday: | June 25, 1975 |
| Status: | Married |
| Looking For: | Friendship |
| Profile Views: | 100 |
Bio:
Ok I must tell everyone who needs to know I do have two names and it was not something I did to get more wish points I tryed to get a new password and they never sent me one then I could not get back in so I asked that no one vote for the other one and just stick with the one here, I am sorry and I did not mean to upset anyone I am new here! thanks for understanding!
I am a 31 year old wife, mother, daughter in law, daughter. I work hard and try to take care of evryone but me and I have three wonderful daughters who have stood up to the chalenges of a sick mother who has almost died right infront of them because I was to stuborn to go to the hospital because who was going to make sure things were taken care of at home, all you moms know what I mean. Well I am in remission form my illness Sarcodosis and have been for the last year, I do however have good and bad days, I still work hard and deal with evryday girl dramas with my family. Thanks to all who read this and vote for my dreams, nice and naughty wishes!
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May 2
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April 10
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Personal Information
| Member Since: |
April 18, 2007 |
| Activities: | takeing care of the kids , hubbie, mother in law and my daddy! |
| Interests: | I love music! I also enjoy writing and reading poems, this is one someone wrote about my illness:
LIVING WITH AN "INVISIBLE ILLNESS"
by Mary Hastings
written May 2003
While from the outside I may seem normal,
It's the part that you can't see,
The constant pain and struggles within,
Are ever so apparent to me.
Although I may wear a smile,
Often times it's covering the tears,
Yet not tears because of sadness,
As it often may appear.
Don't be too quick to judge though,
Because there is so much more than is known,
What may seem to look like one thing,
Just might turn to prove so wrong.
I may sometimes seem unfriendly,
Or too centered around self,
Because sometimes standing takes all I've got,
And there is just no energy left.
Sometimes my words may sound awkward,
My communication may not always convey,
My true inner thoughts and feelings,
Aren't always expressed by what I say.
You may think that I'm not really listening,
Sometimes my face or speech may not show,
But I do hear every word you say,
I really want you to know.
The information doesn't always process,
As quickly and as clear,
And sometimes it takes me longer,
To interpret what I hear.
I possibly miss many opportunities,
To offer needed love or support,
Because sometimes it just takes to long,
For my thoughts and words to sort.
So if my actions seem inappropriate,
In the things I say or do,
I hope that you can understand,
That it is not because of you.
There are times I get discouraged,
When forced to accept my inability--
It's hard to admit my limitations,
And it leaves me feeling so guilty.
Yet every moment is a reminder
As I look all around,
The effort it takes just to get through the day,
Just picking my feet up off the ground.
I am not looking to find pity,
I am just attempting to explain,
That the person that you may often see,
And the real me aren't exactly the same.
You may not see the peace and joy,
When you look upon my face,
But I know that each day I live,
Is because of God's amazing grace.
It is hard to always be cheerful,
When the pain is so very real,
And not everyone can comprehend,
The extend of how I feel.
I don't see it as all bad though,
Although I'd much rather it not be so,
But I know that if I must endure,
God will strengthen me as I go.
It may seem as if I take no pride
In the way that I look or dress,
However, there might be much more going on,
Inside of the big mess.
My home may not be nice and neat,
My bed not always made,
The laundry may not all be done,
And often it makes me ashamed.
But I must only do what I am able,
Each day I have to choose,
What is most important right then,
And the tasks I am able to lose.
All the plans and dreams I once held,
Now don't seem quite so clear,
Yet I feel a peace within,
As my Lord keeps drawing me near.
To have a chronic illness,
Or a disability that one must bear,
Somehow puts life into perspective,
And helps to make us more aware.
I realize now that each day I live,
Is a gift from God above,
It is hard not to lean on Him,
Or to look to His great love.
I now can fully understand,
On my own, there is nothing I can do,
It is only be faith and prayer,
That I can make it through.
It may seem an exaggeration,
No one can alway |
| Favourite Music: | I like it all! |
| Favourite Tv Shows: | Prison break!!! Charmed even though it is over now
And UFC MMA Fighting is #1 |
| Favourite Movies: | Mr and Mrs Smith, Goonies, Lost Boys, and anything to do with Vampiers. |
| Quotes: | God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, the corage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference!
I say this at leaset a million times a day lol when I was a little girl my grandma used to tell me to count to 10 before I blew up and got angry well that never worked for me lol by the time I got to 10 I was even more upset so, I saw this prayer and have it in my office at home and all around to help me make it through the tough days in my life. |
| Like To Meet: | The people who make the tv show extreem home make over they are great! |
| Heroes: | My family and Friends |
Shout Outs
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sallyserranoShout out posted at 6:19 PM on September 10 2007
Just passing by to say hello
pamcakeShout out posted at 9:37 AM on July 16 2007
Thank you for adding me to your friends..and good luck with your wish!
WolvereneShout out posted at 3:50 AM on July 10 2007
thank you so much for your vote!
thank you so much for your vote and friendship!!!
BigMamaKattShout out posted at 10:09 PM on June 22 2007
Looking for help from my friends, Could you Please take a minute to check out my wish
http://www.robinhoodfund.com/cast-your-votes/wish/id/7375
Thank you
sltynesShout out posted at 3:28 PM on June 3 2007
Just wanted to say hi and let you know I am thinking about you. Hope that you are having a good day today. Hope that your toes are doing some better. Before I forget thanks for the vote. I have told my family members about you because I feel a real connection to you. I am grateful for everyday like you and have put my life in God's hands. My sarcoidosis is not as bad as yours. But I do have sores on my legs. Today I am having some pain in my lungs, but it could definately be alot worse. Thanks for being my friend.
neededmomShout out posted at 3:16 PM on May 30 2007
Just stopped by to vote your wish and ask you to please check out my wishes when you get a chance. I sure hope you win because you have worked so hard.
Hello i am glad to be friends
BONITAShout out posted at 12:22 PM on May 27 2007
HI... YOU WANTED TO KNOW HOW LONG MY MOM HAS HAD HER SARCOIDOISIS...SHE FIRST WAS DIAGNOSED AT AROUND AGE 40'SH - SHE IS NOW 81...BLESS HER HEART, SHE MANAGED TO GET THROUGH THE FIRST BOUT WAY BACK THEN AND HADN'T MUCH GRIEF FROM IT SINCE - BUT RECENTLY HAS IT DEVELOPED IN HER EYES...WE WAIT FOR FURTHER TEST RESULTS TO SEE WHERE TO GO FROM THERE..SHE ALSO HAS PARKINSON'S - RAISED 8 OF US AND STILL A LITTLE SPIT-FIRE - MOM'S ARE THE BEST!
ENJOY YOUR DAY!
beccaright31
