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The Stolers Dream

IM an 18 year old female with many medical issues that are unaffordable.. sometime everyone needs aliitle help
Member Since:	June 16, 2007
Location:	ohio United States
Gender:	Female
Birthday:	September 1, 1988
Interested In:	Men
Status:	Engaged
Looking For:	Friendship
AIM:	dont have one
Profile Views:	138

Bio:

First I would like to say please for give my spelling my grammars not the best :( and I dont know how to use the spell check button Hi my name is cassandra and my fiances name is Barrett we are 18 and 23. Recently things have gone down hill with my medical health and our weath lately. We need just alittle help and some prayer along the way. Anything from $1.00 on would help us. I dont want to sound like a begger or greedy so please forgive me if I do, Im also new to RHF so Im looking for new friends and if you have any advice for me I would be very greatful to learn. I was born in Newyork september 1st 1988 I am 18 years old, and had a long journy to today. I have many medical issues including siezures, heart problems, depression (mental), chronic back pain(and other back problems), gurts and alot of other medical issues, to many to list. Some of my medical problems accoured sence the age of 2 due to an accident. Many of my friends call me medical incredible. (If any body has any question Im more then willing to sare my life expirences) ~June13th I ened up in the hospital ER due to heart failure which lead me to be laid off from work on June15th due to the medical issues and then I ended up in the hospital again on the 20th with an abscess cause from an allergic reaction from a shot on the 13th that started at the top of my left side buttock all the way to my left leg above the back of my knee I had to be cut open in 3 spots, drained and packed. My wounds are still open and very sore, Im unable to walk without help due to the damage from the infection on my left side (new update) I had to go back june 20th to get one more cut and my drains changed the infection spred but where htey put the drains the infection went down still really sore but now I have 4 holes and have to go back the 25th fun fun NOT. I have really bad eczema ALL OVER my body also caused from an allerig reaction from the 13th and it hurts. Barret has to rub this medicated cream on me 5 times a day (or as often as he can hes very busy and tries his hardest to be superman) and as much as I love his touch now a simple hug hurts. I even need help in the shower now. I added even more meds to my collection, I take 21 different medications a day and still not taking all I should because we cant afford it . I went back friday the 22nd for more "work" on my abscess and its very pain full and exspencive (I will keep every one updated). Im very depressed and hurt right now...and im praying for a miracle, not only for me but for my angel. I cant even think of how stressful this must be to him even tho he never shows it. ~Barrett (my angel aka superman) is 23 and a very hard working man who does everything in his power to help me when Im ill and all around everything.. he works 6 days a week from 10 hour days yet still we do not have enough for my medical need and living. As stated before I take alot of meds and one of my pills alone is close to 150 a refill (let me remind you thats 30 pills, take 1 three times a day) you do the math, luckly not all of my meds cost that much there are a few that only cost around $8.00 thank God for that. Just today we got teo of my antibiodics for free threw a program at Mijiers pharmacy (that truly was a miracle and I was very thankful) Recently I moved to Ohio from Newyork and lost all of my medical insurance so he is trying to pull the weight of both of us, Keeping food on the table (that we dont have) and a roof over our heads, hes trying so much for me and even though I look and feel like a monster right now and my medical issues are pulling us down down he still wants to marry me. He loves me for me and thats the best feeling ever. I truly believe hes what keeps me going. We are truly in love but now we are so far under and behind I just pray we can have our wedding day at least half way decent and hopefully I wont look so sickly by then. hopefully I can walk without help which things are looking good really good still sore and need help but its is slowly improving. ~ On top of all of this we just lost our first baby together but thats a good sign because dr once told me I would never get pregnant and Im a strong believer that things happen for a reason. I would like to think of it as a sign from God. If I had one wish and one wish only it would not be for me but for Barrett. I just want him to be happy and be able to have things for himself sometimes. It would be nice to at least beable to afford our rings for the wedding and and some how find a way for my dress to fit due to weight loss. I dont mean to sound like a begger but if anybody can help with anything or you want to know more in detail im willing to share anything with anybody please e-mail me at cassandrabell2007@yahoo.com thank you sooo much and god bless for taking your time to read this... and may everyones wish come true in the end!! LOL I almost forgot I have to kittens both black one with white feet one all black. One is a boy and his name is phinius and the other is a girl named Illiyana, they are both very well trained for being so you even tho when we first got them we thought they were both girls Ooops. They are from the same litter and seam to know when Im sick so they keep me company when I feel lonely, hopefully by the time they need fixed we will be in better health and weath... all I ask is for if you dont feel as if you like my wishes or dont want to vote at least say a prayer for Barrett and I thank you soo much. God bless you all and once again good luck to everybody and thankyou in advance :)

January 24

The Stolers Dream and biggeneticfreak are now friends4:54 PM

June 17

The Stolers Dream and x_ryoga_hibiki_x are now friends11:40 PM

May 2

The Stolers Dream and Hopeslost are now friends3:09 PM

August 6

The Stolers Dream updated their profile4:07 PM

August 1

kelli44 posted a shout out to The Stolers Dream10:14 PM
Violt posted a shout out to The Stolers Dream10:20 AM

July 22

The Stolers Dream and glandular-mass are now friends12:23 PM

July 21

The Stolers Dream and CHEFMICKEY07 are now friends12:47 PM

July 18

DJORDAN commented on The Stolers Dream's wish (3rd try A Gift for my angel and wonderful Husand)9:47 AM

July 17

JamOnStella commented on The Stolers Dream's wish (3rd try A Gift for my angel and wonderful Husand)11:22 PM

Personal Information

Member Since:	June 16, 2007
Activities:	Anything that includes my one and only, anything I can do and put my mind to when Im feeling well. I love to work ( as wierd as that sounds) I love music and art Im often to sick to go outside so I like myspace its a good way to keep intouch with my friends.. and planning for my wedding.. and spending time with Barrett
Interests:	Piano, art, children sports, Barrett, and people
Favourite Music:	Anything that has meaning behind the lyrics.. Im into alot of music I have a passion for all types.
Favourite Tv Shows:	Dont watch t.v we dont even have one :(
Favourite Movies:	anything Scary or comedy I enjoy just laying with barrett and enjoying any film as long as it has a good plot or out come.
Favourite Books:	I like books from Deen Koontz, Chuck Palahnuik, and my fav. poet is Edgar allan poe.
Quotes:	"A day without a smile equals a life time full of failure" "Love is strong yet delicate. It can be broken. To truly love is to understand this. To be in love is to respect this." "this to shall pass' "ever beat of the heart is one more step to the future, reach for your dreams and reach high never give up hope and hope wont fail you"
Like To Meet:	Im a people person, I love making new friends, I would be honnered to meet anybody famous and I would most deff like to meet my grandmother in heaven once again :)
Heroes:	~My grandmother who sadley passed at age 56 on july 16th 2005 (RIP) ~my wonderful better half Barrett for taking care of me and doing the best he can to mae us both survive.... (god truly blessed me with the best man ever) ~EVERY child in the world ( a childs smile can brighten my day and the sound of a child laughing is like music to my ears)

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kelli44Shout out posted at 10:14 PM on August 1 2007

Just thought I'd stop by to say hi. :o)

VioltShout out posted at 10:20 AM on August 1 2007

Hi there!

Just wondering how you're doing today- I hope your antibiotics are doing their job now! Sending healing thoughts your way!

khaiShout out posted at 3:56 PM on July 10 2007

you are very nice couple.
congratulatons!!! All the best on your journey together, a lot of love, understanding, patience and God's blessing.

Tony's DaddyShout out posted at 10:06 PM on July 4 2007

U definetly have my 5 lil lady....I know what it's like to be in your shoes..

gerrissisterShout out posted at 6:19 PM on July 3 2007

Thanks for warm welcome.Will try to get to know you all

The Stolers DreamShout out posted at 5:23 PM on June 29 2007

everyone is welcome for the stars yes it was said what benoit did to himself and his family and I checked for you Ama your vote didint show hunny its ok and to all others thanks and your welcome for being friends :)

HeytoallShout out posted at 3:28 PM on June 29 2007

Thank you! Your stars mean a lot to us!!!
Sheila

AmaShout out posted at 1:05 AM on June 29 2007

Thank you for your vote. I also voted for you but I think I might have messed up on how to do it. I'm so sorry if I got it wrong. I started with the first star intending to give you five, please forgive me if it messes up anything. I now realize I should have clicked the last star first. God bless and I hope your wish is granted.