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mechayla
| All Natural Country Girl | |
| Member Since: | August 24, 2007 |
| Location: | IL United States |
| Gender: | Female |
| Birthday: | October 15, 1964 |
| Status: | Married |
| Profile Views: | 94 |
Bio:
I met my soulmate at a park on a beatiful sunny day while I was reading a John Grisham novel. This man approached the table at which I was reading and inquired about the book. I looked up into the eyes of the man I had dreamed about since childhood. My heart was singing but my head was yelling, "No!" as I had recently been through a nasty divorce following an abusive marriage. We talked for awhile and I eventually exchanged phone numbers with him. We married 2 years later and bought our dream home. We spent our savings on the home as the interior was unfinished. A year later, we discovered that there was major structural damage to the home. The mortgage company did not have the inspection done that we had paid to have done. So we had to hire an attorney. The litigation can take up to 5 years from the original filing date. This coming November will be 2 years. My husband has not had any children of his own and desperately wants a baby. He is the last of the family name on his father's side. His father passed away in 1981. I had my tubes clipped after the birth of my youngest daughter who is now 18 and in college. I am in need of assistance with the cost of the tubal reversal procedure. We were planning on having this procedure done after saving up again. Court costs and attorneys fees have prevented this. I do not know how long it will be before the court case is decided and if the mortgage company will file an appeal or not. We have researched tubal reversal procedures for 3 years and believe that we have found the best as this doctor not only was the first in the Western Hemisphere to perform the procedure, he has made vast improvements to the procedure with a pregnancy success rate of 85%. That is 50% higher than with IVF and not near the expense. The total all inclusive fee is $6200. This pays for the doctors fee, the OR fee, and the hospital fee. I understand there is the option of adoption but, the cost of the attorney alone supercedes the tubal reversal fee. There are agencies that come in to inspect the home and to verify that you will be able to provide for the child and they charge fees. The adoption agency has fees and they are definitely not cheap. Most people cannot afford adoption. My husband would like a natural child of his own and I wish for nothing more in the world than to be able to give him that child. Please find a spot within your heart to understand and know that I will be eternally grateful for any assistance you may be able to offer. (mechayla@yahoo.com is my paypal info) Thank you for allowing me a part of your time.
November 10
mechayla and kijiky are now friends7:22 AM
October 24
- mechayla and Shortcakes are now friends1:01 AM
October 13
- mechayla and Cas13 are now friends2:29 AM
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September 13
- mechayla and tiffers are now friends4:53 PM
September 10
- mechayla and TRACI01 are now friends9:18 AM
September 8
- mechayla and HopeforAngel are now friends4:10 PM
- mechayla and tomi are now friends10:18 AM
- mechayla and astrid are now friends9:37 AM
September 7
mechayla commented on findacureforashley's wish (I wish Ashley's Cancer had not come Back)9:26 PM
