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7Rogue7
| Mother of many ~ Grandmother to a few ~ Child of God ~ Friend to all... | |
| Member Since: | January 16, 2008 |
| Location: | NH United States |
| Gender: | Female |
| Birthday: | August 25, 1968 |
| Status: | Engaged |
| Looking For: | Friendship |
| Profile Views: | 820 |
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Never enough time ~ Never enough money ~ Always enough faith! < . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . > < . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . > In November of 2006, my husband of 5 years decided that he could no longer deal with my teenagers and he filed for divorce. Two months later I found out that he also cancelled all of our insurance. < . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . >< . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . > In August of 2007, my grandson (Alexander aka Squishy Monkey) fell into a fire pit. In less than 2 minutes he lost most of his toes, the bottom of his feet and melted his right hand and arm. Since that time, I have borrowed over $3,000 trying to keep him in what he needs - running back and forth to Shriner's Burn Hospital in Boston - Wear and tear on the Jeep - Special shoes and inserts - Dressings and wrappings - and so much more! He's had 22 surgeries now and still has 16 more years of surgeries. < . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . >< . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . > In December of 2007 my daughter (17) had her first baby. Since that time, her boyfriend (19) has become a total druggie and controller with verbal abuse. I am constantly picking her up, dealing with cops, helping her and the baby and getting threatened by him. Just recently, she and the baby have moved in with me and we are trying to get things worked out. < . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . >< . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . > **UPDATE** April 2008 She tried living with the boyfriend again *sigh* He beat her up - then her friends beat him up - then he had her arrested. Now she is facing one year in jail and $1,000 fine if found guilty. The boyfriend is claiming that he's a 'victim'. Makes me ill! We have gotten all the people who were involved in beating him up to testify to that fact, unfortunately in NH, as long as he says she did it, there's a chance she'll be found guilty. Court date is in June. She is currently living out of state to keep her safe. There is a third party no contact order in effect which means that she can't contact him or anyone in his family but he and his family can leave her voicemails and text messages. Where is the fairness in that??? I hate it when the legal system doesn't work the way it should. She has the baby and they are both fine. < . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . >< . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . > My Jeep was repossessed. I am working on buying a car but it's hard without a job. I've been selling a lot of stuff on eBay trying to come up with all the money. http://stores.ebay.com/Eternally-Angels if you're interested in seeing what I have. I've been sending the car guy payments through PayPal to get it paid off. For now though, I'm just borrowing cars and gas money. < . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . >< . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . > Well, May has been an interesting month. Bank account got hacked to the tune of $500 - Car still isn't paid off - Alex is going through pre-ops - Kadie is facing the Domestic Violence charge (that she didn't do) - I am back in school though. That's a good thing. I'm making A's but it's stressful. To be able to get a decent job I have to have a degree that says I know what I'm doing...Even though I already have the experience *pfft* Who knows...Maybe life really will get better someday...For now, I'm just trying to remember to breathe and smile occasionally...< . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . >< . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . > June 2008 - Kadie has court on Monday. It looks like maybe *praying* the state is going to dismiss the charges as "Mutual Combat." I sure hope so. I'm having issues with my stomach again. Intestinal lesions, stomach ulcers and a slew of other digestive issues. Alex is doing better and has no open sores on his feet. He has some issues with sweating and swelling because of the heat but overall he is doing amazing. He turned 3 on June 4th and smarter than ever! Thanks to the wonderful Angels here at GoN, he had an awesome birthday! I'm still trying to find a job in between dealing with the boys and being sick but so far no luck. I haven't given up though. God always takes care of us...it's just in His time, not ours. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . >< . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . > October 2008 - Well, in August we ended up having to move out of the apartment we were living in with Jack and Matt. Things just went from bad to worse because Matt (15) hit a rebellious stage (that is still going on) and he started getting physically violent and verbally abusive. Jack (of course) stood by his son but I couldn't take any more of it. On top of that, I was going to have to put 1 of my dogs down because she was getting so neurotic over the violence in the house. Currently we are living with my other best friend (David) and his son (Ashton - 14). The great thing here is that Ashton is Jordin's best friend. We have been here for a little over two months and so far it is damn near perfect! The boys each have their own rooms...They have food...There are THREE bathrooms! That in itself is a blessing ;) Jack and I decided to split up but we will remain friends. It is hard but I'm okay. Now for all the bad news...My Mom is going through cancer again. She got hit with brain cancer and breast cancer in both breasts. They did a brain surgery and removed 90% of the cancer but they can't get the other 10%. She is in extreme pain and just wants to give up. They can't even start the radiation and chemo until her body starts healing a little bit. They have given her 6 months at the rate her body is deteriorating. I cry a lot and this is the hardest thing I have ever had to face. The other bad news...It looks like I'm heading into another round of cancer also. I have 3 lumps in my left breast and one of them is up to 3cm now. My doctor is fighting with the financial people because I don't have insurance. I'm so achy and sore and tired but I'm not even dealing with what I'm going through because the stuff with my Mom has me so upset. I'm still working at the Halloween stores for now but the 85 hours a week isn't helping my health any. I still don't have a car but David has been great about getting me back and forth to work. Life isn't perfect but it's better than it has been. The only thing I wish I could fix is my Mom. She just turned 57 on the 12th. She is way too young to be having to go through all of this again. Alex is doing great. He is growing like crazy! His surgeries are still on hold because he just hasn't stopped growing. They are making small incisions in his grafts so that they don't tear but they want to keep the surgeries on hold until he slows down growing a little bit. David helped Kodie to get into her own apartment. She has a nice little two bedroom apartment and finally, her own space. She and I are still both in online college and we are doing pretty well. She has a 4.0 and I have a 3.96 - I am struggling to keep up with Mom, my health issues, school and work but so far I'm okay. Just extremely tired and I feel beat down. I have a lot of tests and a lumpectomy scheduled for 10/28. I am supposed to be on bed rest for two weeks but that probably won't happen *LOL* Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers. Usually (because it's easier to play laying down) you can find me on MySpace (username: roguebabe). David set up a computer for me so that I don't have to move much. It makes it a lot easier. Feel free to add me, just let me know you're from GoN so that I can put you in my friends folder. Okay, I'm done rambling...Just wanted to let everyone know what's going on... . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . >< . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . > January 2009 - Mom passed away in December. It is truly the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with. I'm having a hard time with her being gone. She was everything to me. David and I are doing great. He is such a wonderful man. He treats the kids with respect and he doesn't yell or berate us. Maybe I have finally found my mister right. Alex and Xavier are living with us too. Kodie's apartment building was condemned and she is currently trying to find a place to live. Life here goes on as usual. I wish it would get better but as well know, God is not a genie and He doesn't grant wishes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . >< . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . > My ultimate goal is to be somewhat healthy and to be able to get through college. My saving graces are my friends, my children and my sweetheart.
May 13
kelli44 posted a shout out to 7Rogue71:12 AM
March 31
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March 6
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Personal Information
| Member Since: | January 16, 2008 |
| Activities: | Reading ~ Writing ~ Web Design ~ Singing ~ Spending time with my babies |
| Interests: | Anything and Everything that makes life better :) |
| Favourite Music: | I love almost everything! Aerosmith ~ Donny Osmond ~ Beethoven ~ Chopin ~ Josh Turner ~ Sugarland Express ~ Pink Floyd... http://www.maxpages.com/misskims/music |
| Favourite Tv Shows: | The Fairly Oddparents ~ Anything "Law & Order" |
| Favourite Movies: | The Emporer's New Groove ~ Ice Age |
| Favourite Books: | Anything by Edgar Allen Poe or Stephen King |
| Quotes: | ~*~ Live each day to the fullest because God doesn't promise us tomorrow ~*~ |
| Like To Meet: | as many as possible. I love most people and sometimes even not nice people can be shown a better way to live :) |
| Heroes: | My mom... |
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