Greedy or Needy » The World's First Web 2.0 Wishing Well » Users

Member Profile

Another one of our amazing members

papabear3259

Not Just one of the Guys!!!!
Member Since:	May 13, 2008
Location:	WA United States
Gender:	Male
Birthday:	March 2, 1959
Status:	Single
Looking For:	Friendship
Profile Views:	155

Bio:

I am a 49 year old Intersex man with female genital. I am insulin dependent I also have Secondary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis (SPMS). I can no longer walk I depend on a power chair, as well I am have lost the use of my bladder and 50% of my bowels. I have visual issues as well anything from blurred to eyes that jump. The fatigue that I live with is overwhelming. Sensory issues are as follow; I have a delay in pain, by the time I feel it I could have cut myself or burn myself. To have someone touch me will drive me crazy, my skin feels at time like it is crawling or I have the pins and needle in the hands arms and face. There are many other things that I face on a daily bases with SPMS some of them I will admit has brought me down to the point I was thinking they would shoot a horse that felt better then this. This past year has been hard for me to deal with however I have never been a quitter. I know that my illness is a progressive one, however I am not ready to stop living and I am now working on creating a new aptitude about life. I am now looking at this life I live as a challenge. I am working on retaking my life back from SPMS. I am learning that it is okay to ask for help, that I do not have to do this alone. I am also learning that asking for help does not make me a weak person. I also know that I have a lot to give to the world on a whole. I can and will be a productive person again. I may not be able to give and do like I use to but I still have a lot to give? It may take me longer to get a task done, however I have all the time in the world. When those day I can not pick myself I can now push a button and get some help and that it does not make me any less of human being. I am learning to use the adaptive equipment with pride not shame. I am pulling myself up from what I call the dark hole of MS and I know that I will slide back once in a while; I am now learning the tools needed to get me out faster. I am tying to put together a small business at home sewing and making devise to help others that use power chairs and need cooling devices for the hot weather, and lap blanket that can hold cold packs, as well as items to hide leg and cathedra bags. To design shirt and such with Logo?s on them? If you feel would like to help me toward being more self reliant you can send a donation to my pay pal account ?Email and I will give the account name? If there is anything you want to know about anything I have placed here please feel free to email. I will answer any and all questions.

July 4

papabear3259 and Amelia's 3 are now friends9:40 AM
papabear3259 and Debbie Y are now friends9:40 AM
papabear3259 and Help4ShelbyRose are now friends9:40 AM

June 27

papabear3259 and kaz are now friends7:51 PM

June 23

papabear3259 and Bent on life are now friends6:35 PM

June 18

gatorgal261 commented on papabear3259's wish (To thank those that have kept her flying!!!!)9:43 AM
Phronsa commented on papabear3259's wish (To thank those that have kept her flying!!!!)1:45 AM
Phronsa commented on papabear3259's wish (UP IN MORNING OFF TO SCHOOL)12:09 AM

June 17

papabear3259 and Shawnben are now friends3:46 PM
gatorgal261 commented on papabear3259's wish (To thank those that have kept her flying!!!!)8:05 AM

Personal Information

Member Since:	May 13, 2008
Activities:	computers, sewing, music, art,
Interests:	Body/Personal Care, recycling, Holistic Health, Art/Design, photography, pets, Aromatherapy, Counseling, Disabilities / Challenged, Gardening/Farming, Holistic Health, Homeopathy
Favourite Music:	ALL types as long it has feeling and meaning.
Favourite Tv Shows:	I don't watch tv
Favourite Movies:	True stories...
Favourite Books:	Human Rights, Historical biographies, true stories, The Lord of The Rings, Anything to do with animals and nature, Harry Potter Series, J.R.R. Tolkien, Self improvement, spirituality
Quotes:	"I will no longer take on the Fears and Insecurities that others have about me, nor will I let others feelings dictate how I live my life.?
Like To Meet:	Corrie Tenboom, Schindler, Gandhi, Mother Teresa
Heroes:	http://www.emilieschindler.com/Schindler/index.htm http://www.corrietenboom.com/exhbits.htm http://www.mkgandhi.org/ http://www.ewtn.com/motherteresa/

[ + Post a Shout Out ]

Shout Outs

Displaying 10 of 22 shout outs

papabear3259Shout out posted at 8:23 PM on June 16 2008

I am not in to the high school drama. I have only one account, yes I have more then one wish. I do not EVER expect to win any of them... it just something fun to do.. I always add one true need but the others are wish for a better world... nothing more than that..
I do not have more then one account and at this rate I will not have this one as I do not have time for the drama, of sore losers and drama queens....
so to all of you down voting me at least be honset and say I want to win so I am downvoting... Honsety is alway the best way.. but don't start lies, you can not back up...
Bryce

Dreamyno1Shout out posted at 11:52 PM on June 12 2008

Bryce,
To get more participation points, vote AND comment on every wish every week until your PP counter in your stats area says that each of those areas are full. I'll have to go look again and see what else raises PP's. Its been so long now since I did it!!

Thanks for your support on..well, everything!
Hugs my friend!
Rhonda

Cancer SurvivorShout out posted at 9:17 PM on June 11 2008

Thank you my friend for your support, am new to this , so im not really sure how it works..

papabear3259Shout out posted at 2:15 PM on June 11 2008

I need 83 more friends, if you need some more friends please invite me...

papabear3259Shout out posted at 2:14 PM on June 11 2008

Is there any other way to get Extra Participation with out doing those long surveys? I have done so many of them now and I am very tried of doing them...

Dreamyno1Shout out posted at 4:04 PM on June 7 2008

I was right! You ARE a great friend!!
Love and hugs to ya!!
Rhonda

Dreamyno1Shout out posted at 7:07 PM on June 5 2008

Hi Papabear3259,
Thank you so much for your support on my wish and also for the friend request! Nice to meet you, my name is Rhonda and I live in Georgia. I'd love to become great friends with you! You are more than welcome to email me at Dreamyno1@yahoo.com anytime!!
Hugs,
Rhonda

papabear3259Shout out posted at 4:12 PM on June 5 2008

Anyone need more friends.. if so add me.. I need some more friends.... can never have enough

Justin3026Shout out posted at 4:35 AM on June 2 2008

Thanks for adding me. Its always good to have new friends.

prinpronisseShout out posted at 10:34 PM on May 26 2008

great wish and video! I have a blog that has resources for people with disabilities among other things. I was wondering if you have any free online resources you might want to add to the list? If so you can find it by typing in Prin's Links into your searchbar and a search engine should find it for you. Leave me a comment on the main blog (for social work students) and I will get together with you from there. Or if you have a blog with them already on there I would be glad to list it on my site :) Thanks.