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My husband to be able to have surgery to fix his back

My husband to be able to have surgery to fix his back

  • By: angelray
  • Amount: $14,000
  • Views: 294
  • Wish Points: 147.64

Hubby has had three back surgurys and needs another one,The last three years has been very bad, we starting going to doctors trying to find someone.. No one here wants to touch him because of going in after another doctor, finally We found a doctor in tampa, flordia who says he can fix him.. but we need 11,900 for a facility fee, they have to have this money up front...money for airplane tickets and motel. We are both disabled so there is no way we can do this. His insurance covers all but this charge. No pain pills touch his pain, and I am afraid everyday that he will do something bad if I dont get someone to help him. The doctor looked at his reports and one of the screws is screwed into a nerve and he has another disk out and a bunch of scar tissue..The doctor said he can fix all of this. Hubby has lost 30 lbs where he is in so much pain that he wont eat. I dont sleep because he is awake all the time going from room to room. There has to be someone out there somewhere to help him, I dont know where to turn. We lost our home once because of his back and he is afraid we will lose our home again. I am afraid to fly but if they can fix him I would fly anywhere. He wants his life back, he has hurt since he was 16 years old.. after three surgerys he is almost fixed other than the screw into his nerve.. If anyone knows of where we would look for help we would be very grateful.
If not thanks for listening. It helps haveing someone to talk to about it.. We have been married 11 years and he has been really bad most of it.. Now is the worst he has ever been, he sits and crys and bounces his legs. he also has real bad headaches from it.
I would love to have my husband back more than anything in this world. We use to fish every weekend and now we dont do anything, we dont go anywhere. Thanks for listening
God Bless